Damn Kuroshio.. you are one wise ****!!!!!! What you just said is a totally logical on so many levels!!! You get my Hero of the Day award!! hehe

Edit: PS: Glad that your movin on up brother!!!!!

 

Sorry to hear about your wife. My only word of advice is to document the cheating and have proof. I you can get copies of the photos of them on the bed kissing it would be a huge help. The reason for this is the divorce. Proving infidelity on her part gets you off the hook when any alimony or estate splitting awards happen. It could save you a lot of money.

 

Here is my advice:
Divorce and leave her not a single penny.
Here is how:
Recover deleted text messages from the cheating spouse's phone and collect enough divorce adultery proof to prove her infidelity in court.

 

Well, 7 1/2 years later, this has more than likely been sorted out to some extent.

 

damn. I just got an email cuz I was subscribed to this historic moment on CBRFORUM. Hope OP is okay. good riddance!

 

Same thing happened to me some years ago, my best friend ran off with my wife.....O I do miss him
(it had to be done)

 

I also wonder how this all turned out for OP.