I caught my wife cheating on me!!!
#51
10-31-2009, 11:29 AM
Senior Member
Try to make a clean break. Its over. No need to inflict more suffering on each and the rest of the people involved. You'll just end up giving more to the lawyers and have less at the end.
The adults in this situation never considered the kids or spouses feelings or well being when they strayed. It is like a train wreck. You survived...walk away and be happy you get a second chance.
I watched this kind of situation unfold as one of the kids. It tore me apart when our "family unit" imploded. My parents separated got back together and the train wreck happened over and over again until enough was enough. The final separation lasted two years...my father found a new companion, was starting a new career, and dropped dead of a heart attack. Thirty eight years of marriage, dragging the whole family through some terrible times, finally recognizing the futility of the situation and moving on.
You are lucky to have discovered you are in an unsuccessful marriage so early, before kids. Move on brother.
The adults in this situation never considered the kids or spouses feelings or well being when they strayed. It is like a train wreck. You survived...walk away and be happy you get a second chance.
I watched this kind of situation unfold as one of the kids. It tore me apart when our "family unit" imploded. My parents separated got back together and the train wreck happened over and over again until enough was enough. The final separation lasted two years...my father found a new companion, was starting a new career, and dropped dead of a heart attack. Thirty eight years of marriage, dragging the whole family through some terrible times, finally recognizing the futility of the situation and moving on.
You are lucky to have discovered you are in an unsuccessful marriage so early, before kids. Move on brother.
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#58
11-11-2009, 11:59 AM
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#59
11-11-2009, 12:15 PM
Good job. I'd actually start dating more than 1 woman.
Might not be a popular position to some people. But I feel that dating just one person (prior to committing to exclusivity) isn't healthy. You hang too much on that one person before knowing if they're the right one to think of committing to. Dating, going out with several women, forces you to take it slow as your time is spread among them.
B'sides, variety is the spice of life
Might not be a popular position to some people. But I feel that dating just one person (prior to committing to exclusivity) isn't healthy. You hang too much on that one person before knowing if they're the right one to think of committing to. Dating, going out with several women, forces you to take it slow as your time is spread among them.
B'sides, variety is the spice of life
