Hey guys. Just wanted to share something with you about my oldest cousin Shelly. She is married with a little boy of her own to a guy she dated Jr year in high school until she was a sophomore in college and it just wasn't working for her or him. It was the worst time for both of them. She just said, she hated to wake up in the mornings knowing that at some point they were going to fight. To make it quick and to the point. She ended up engaged to another guy for about two years and broke it off because he was cheating on her about two years later, she run into Bard at a mutual friend's house. They began just talking every now and then and after about six months, went out on a real date ended up getting married after about six months and have been married for 12 years with a 9yr son. I think you guys really believe that all us girls have some kind of interconnection and know what the other one is thinking. It's simply just not true. It just depends on the person and the place there at in life. Good luck is all I can say
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Ask HC about his oldest brother and his wife. That would make a perfect example of something like this. You guys have a great day. I'm going back to work [/align]

 

Fukk it. You can't change who you are. No matter how much you don't want to believe it, you are the same person. You might handle situtions a teense defferently, but the base of who you are still remains.(barring you were addicted to drugs or alcohol and are now clean, that could make a radical change.)She didn't love you for who you were back then, she won't this time either.

 

That pretty much explains every female out there. Take your time and if it is meant to be it will work it's self out. Just remember they are always right. If you don't agree just ask any woman, they will make sure you know.

 

As said by going back you could learn some life lessons but you could also just end up and probably will end up ...heartbroken!

Also a possible few more years of your life wasted on the wrong one...

I just don't like seeing folk hurting and that's all I can see here... a whole lot of it!

 

Well, I hate to see you post this thread but it is good to have some assurance that Im not the only one who has problems everynow and then.

If you Love her and you know it, only you know this my friend. Try and get her back. What ever you did is in the past. You've put some age on you now, possibly matureda bit.

So yes, I say go get her dude.

As for knowing what a she is thinking... Duuudddee Give up on that ****. Its never going to happen. In fact you probably could just start using the opposite of what you think she is THiNKin lol.


Best of Luck to you bro. Keep us updated homie about the situation. No crazy details either lol.