My girlfriend is giving me an ultimatum: her or the bike..
#63
03-30-2011 | 09:11 AM
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Money talks. Money is what makes and breaks relationships. If I was a chick and a guy was buying toys all the time. I would double think if he was ready to get serious with me. Obviously that's what most women want. That's great your wife's and girlfriends support you..doesn't mean all will.
having a bike and riding it doesn't mean you're blowing your money on toys all the time. just means you like to do something... i think a lot of it has a lot to do with where you live vs. where i live. you're in minnesota, im in SW florida (where the twins have spring training ). i ride all year around, its my main form of transportation. and i'm sure up there, you're riding 6 mo. best case scenario right?
either way, money has nothing to do with this topic as far as i'm concerned. if you blow all of your money on your bike... then thats what you do, that probably won't change if you give up riding. you'll find something else to blow all of your money on. being in a stable relationship when you've got the mortgage, car payments, bills, etc. means not blowing your money on anything (even the wife). i have a bike, but its not a money pit in my eyes. its a much more fun, and cheaper form of transportation.
#64
03-30-2011 | 06:42 PM
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From: Saint Paul Minnesota
Conrice: He admitted he had 6 bikes in the last 3 years. Accoridng to his profile he is from New Jersey. Hence 6 months of the year riding so that mean 1 bike per 3 months.
So why does it matter if I live in Minnesota. There are people riding year around. Plus depending on a person's situation. They might need a car more than they need a bike.
If your going for cheap transportation. There is always a geo metro. Get better gas mileage and there tires last a lot longer than your bikes.
So why does it matter if I live in Minnesota. There are people riding year around. Plus depending on a person's situation. They might need a car more than they need a bike.
If your going for cheap transportation. There is always a geo metro. Get better gas mileage and there tires last a lot longer than your bikes.
#67
03-30-2011 | 07:38 PM
Personally I will be giving up my bike because of my relationship with the girl. In two years if we get in engaged I am selling it. I feel that it will be time to move on and not only think about myself..but us. I am assuming your girl is thinking about the us factor vs just yourself. Could be a test to see if your finical good with money to. If your out spending all the time on toys who is to say you change in the future.
sorry man, thats the worst thing ive ever heard....riding is a way of life...not something you can just move on from...the financial thing is a crock too...thats like tellin her she cant get her hair done, go shopping for new shoes, clothes and makeup, those are her 'toys' and i gaurentee if u tell her its those or you, start packin your crap...jmo tho
#70
03-30-2011 | 08:32 PM
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This reminds me of Anthrax song Finale. lol (I used to be a metal head) What funny is this song was about a guy married a girl, but she took his life away. And yes, they did sing " I drink 3 six pack just so I can look at your face" ha ha
Disclaimer: I have no intention to say that this is the case. for people here. I am sure everybody's girlfriends/wives are very nice and respectful.
If we don't give up our passion for the sake of love, that same love can last and grow. Right? guys or girls who have been happily married for a while ?
Disclaimer: I have no intention to say that this is the case. for people here. I am sure everybody's girlfriends/wives are very nice and respectful.
If we don't give up our passion for the sake of love, that same love can last and grow. Right? guys or girls who have been happily married for a while ?