Royally f'd (ex GF rant) rated R
#11
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Well if noone else will say it, I will. Dude, shes not your biggest problem, you are. Enough of all this crap of the other posters here, and yourself, blaming this crap on the chick. Its a "relationship" takes two people. This is one is most honestly FUBAR. You should have walked away well before you were served with a freaking Restraining Order telling you to do so, which, by the way, was given for somer "reason" I assume? You didn't, you kept coming back to her, or allowing her to come back to you. Dude, you CAN'T fix her, and while around her you can't fix yourself. Man up, take responsibility for you part in it, if for nothing else than allowing it to go on, and just move on, forget about her, call the county and work your crap out with them and get over it. This sounds harsh, I know, but I've been there. Some people just don't work together and can bring out the worst in eachother. Problem with those relationships is ALL the BS you went through together makes you feel like it means something more than it does, it's like pain and suffering investments into the relationship, and neither one wants to throw all that effort away. It's an illusion. Sorry if it sounds harsh, but it's the truth. It's not about who's the victim or the a-hole, you both are, move on and find someone who doesn't bring out the worst in you. Was many years ago for me, and I'm so much happier now with my life, new significant other (going on five years together, great relationship) and the way everything has went since I washed my hands of my old "psycho ex".
If you don't take this advice, at least clean your room once in a while, feh, used condoms under your bed, that was bright. Heh. Seriously don't take offense to this man, consider it tough love or whatever. Later and good luck.
If you don't take this advice, at least clean your room once in a while, feh, used condoms under your bed, that was bright. Heh. Seriously don't take offense to this man, consider it tough love or whatever. Later and good luck.
Last edited by Hangfire; 03-09-2009 at 02:23 AM.
#13
what if she came up missing
then there would only be one side of the story.
but in all seriousness , call the police and talk to them from a pay phone. tell them your story. if she beats you up she can get in trouble for that.
then there would only be one side of the story.
but in all seriousness , call the police and talk to them from a pay phone. tell them your story. if she beats you up she can get in trouble for that.
#14
Oh my God, well ..I haven't read all the replies but I can tell you that you two are on a hiding to nowhere ..please, you both have to never see each other again, you fight, spit, beat each other up, cheat on each other ..break or no break, can't you see, if you break up you can never go back, it never works ... you will send each other crazier than you both already are, this has to stop before one of you or both of you gets hurt and I mean spiritually hurt as well as physically .. this kind of nonsense is not good for the soul, all that negative energy and upset can be so done without and you could be doing so many other things that are better than *this*
I am not blaming either one of you, it could just be a bad clash of personalities but I don't see it getting better, ever!! ..do you??
Please, the idea of any children between you two is unthinkable, sorry for the rant too but I see nothing but emergency code RED here, get out!! ..Stay Out!!
Good luck sweetheart!! :-)
Jules
I am not blaming either one of you, it could just be a bad clash of personalities but I don't see it getting better, ever!! ..do you??
Please, the idea of any children between you two is unthinkable, sorry for the rant too but I see nothing but emergency code RED here, get out!! ..Stay Out!!
Good luck sweetheart!! :-)
Jules
Last edited by Juliet; 03-09-2009 at 05:07 AM.
#17
wow
she sounds nuts
it makes me feel a little better about what ive just went thru with my gf of 6years
mine was a bit more hurtful, but def. less psycho
whatever happens, i would never talk to her again, even if shes being nice and ur both drunk.. its not worth it
run away, just like you had to already
she sounds nuts
it makes me feel a little better about what ive just went thru with my gf of 6years
mine was a bit more hurtful, but def. less psycho
whatever happens, i would never talk to her again, even if shes being nice and ur both drunk.. its not worth it
run away, just like you had to already