No Sex Tonight
#21
06-18-2007, 08:38 PM
RE: No Sex Tonight
muhahhahha...
wait until your wife has a baby...then you'd be waiting more than a month for anything...including dinner, laundry, car wash, etc.!
therefore, know this...you don't need a womang to have sex...or a mang...you just need the thoughts of a womang...or a mang...or both!
wait until your wife has a baby...then you'd be waiting more than a month for anything...including dinner, laundry, car wash, etc.!
therefore, know this...you don't need a womang to have sex...or a mang...you just need the thoughts of a womang...or a mang...or both!
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RE: No Sex Tonight
I wish I could say I was kidding. It varies depending on the woman though. I'm one of the statistics who thought he had a quasi-nympho until after the "I Do". Some of my other married friends seem to not have that problem (or at least admit that they do).
The 2 months I was talking about was a test I did. I'm always the one to initiate and figured that I would do a test of both her and myself (which was torture for me) and not initiate anything to see how long it would take for her to do so. Well, it took 2 months and it was only AFTER I told her what I was doing that a week later she initiated. So, yah. But, she's beautiful, a good cook and gave me a wonderful little boy. Sadly though, as you all know... men have needs and although those needs may seem trivial to women (I know my wife downplays sex as something that she doesn't feel is a big necessity in a relationship), it's something that's naturally instilled in men. Over time, it takes it's toll and begins to affect other aspects of a relationship. Which is somewhat what I'm going through right now myself. Intimate relationships with girlfriends, wives, etc can't remain or even retain much intimacy when there's very little affection.
Oh yeah, having a baby only further decreased her sexual appetite. Hell, we almost went to marriage counseling up to one year after my son was born. The hormones man are hell! I couldn't even go out and mow the lawn without her getting pissed that I wasn't helping with the baby. Chit needs done around the house and someone had to do it! Took me months to get her to realize that.
The book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" is a decent reading book. While I don't 100% agree with everything in it, and it's not a "manual to women", it definitely helps things make sense, and when it comes to women, every little bit of knowledge helps. We're reading it now and I'm hoping it helps things with us, although she's almost done with it and I haven't seen much in the way of results.
The 2 months I was talking about was a test I did. I'm always the one to initiate and figured that I would do a test of both her and myself (which was torture for me) and not initiate anything to see how long it would take for her to do so. Well, it took 2 months and it was only AFTER I told her what I was doing that a week later she initiated. So, yah. But, she's beautiful, a good cook and gave me a wonderful little boy. Sadly though, as you all know... men have needs and although those needs may seem trivial to women (I know my wife downplays sex as something that she doesn't feel is a big necessity in a relationship), it's something that's naturally instilled in men. Over time, it takes it's toll and begins to affect other aspects of a relationship. Which is somewhat what I'm going through right now myself. Intimate relationships with girlfriends, wives, etc can't remain or even retain much intimacy when there's very little affection.
Oh yeah, having a baby only further decreased her sexual appetite. Hell, we almost went to marriage counseling up to one year after my son was born. The hormones man are hell! I couldn't even go out and mow the lawn without her getting pissed that I wasn't helping with the baby. Chit needs done around the house and someone had to do it! Took me months to get her to realize that.
The book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" is a decent reading book. While I don't 100% agree with everything in it, and it's not a "manual to women", it definitely helps things make sense, and when it comes to women, every little bit of knowledge helps. We're reading it now and I'm hoping it helps things with us, although she's almost done with it and I haven't seen much in the way of results.
#29
06-19-2007, 01:24 PM
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RE: No Sex Tonight
I'm sorry. I just don't get it... Even if she's not in the mood, what's 15-30 mins of her day to make you happy in bed?
Sheesh.
Sheesh.
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Tennessee, either you've never been married, or you're one of the exceptions.
-The #1 food that's almost guaranteed to kill a woman's sexual appetite is wedding cake.
-Also, the reason the bride smiles so big when she's walking down the isle is because she knows she's given her last *******.
I used to laugh at these quotes until I got married and realize how true they are. If you can't relate, then you're one of the priveleged few and you should hang onto her with both hands!
Crap, my wife hasn't given me any in a month, and we just got back from vacation... where the carrot was dangled, but not put within reach. Before the last time it was 2 months! We've been married almost 5 years too and the intervals betweeen get longer and longer.
I'm glad I have the CBR now so that I have an alternative when the mood hits and she's unwilling. Something about cruising around on some back roads with just the hum of the exhaust and the wind rushing by with no radio, talking or other distractions that seems close to (but not entirely equal to) sex. Wow... I just exposed how much of a CBR newbie I am haven't I?
Tennessee, either you've never been married, or you're one of the exceptions.
-The #1 food that's almost guaranteed to kill a woman's sexual appetite is wedding cake.
-Also, the reason the bride smiles so big when she's walking down the isle is because she knows she's given her last *******.
I used to laugh at these quotes until I got married and realize how true they are. If you can't relate, then you're one of the priveleged few and you should hang onto her with both hands!
Crap, my wife hasn't given me any in a month, and we just got back from vacation... where the carrot was dangled, but not put within reach. Before the last time it was 2 months! We've been married almost 5 years too and the intervals betweeen get longer and longer.
I'm glad I have the CBR now so that I have an alternative when the mood hits and she's unwilling. Something about cruising around on some back roads with just the hum of the exhaust and the wind rushing by with no radio, talking or other distractions that seems close to (but not entirely equal to) sex. Wow... I just exposed how much of a CBR newbie I am haven't I?
