Would it be too much to have her come spend a year with you? I did talk about"overseeing" with an open hand, but maybe you could help her to get a handle if she lived with you (maybe that would be a terrible option...I don't know). Parenting never came with any kind of manual. Do your best, my friend, and have faith that she will figure it out. Also, tell your Ex to chill the f_ck out! Jeezum Crow, your daughter is just at the start of her adulthood. Mama should give her a break.

 

Beleive me I've tryed, she won't budge from Orange County.....Big Bear is boring slow and their aren't all the stores and fast foods on every corner with in walking distance [>:]where I live most people would think I live in the sticks hell I don't even live on a paved road, I live in an area that is over seen by a "speciel district" I'm below County ! when it comes to road maint I mightsee motergrader maybe once a year, hell ! I even had to make my own street post out of a 4x4 post, paint and do all the lettering my self !. Yapeople from the city think I'm ahick cuz a where I live LOL ! But thanks brother, all you guys have been really cool to me about this [sm=hail.gif]