That my heart had been broken before....that things would keep getting better and not go backwards.....

August 30th my girlfriend and i found out she was pregnant...i was overjoyed, and so was she...that was short lived...she is under-age 17 and her mother wants her to have an abortion, neither one of us agreed with her mother...come today...after i saw her and dropped of her prenatal prescription...she calls me...her words "at the end of this i'm going to do whats right for me and you....i'm getting the abortion"....WTF?! I'm glad i didn't announce that i was an expecting father on CBRF...i would look like the fool that i am....its crazy...we had pretty much PLANNED to have a child...and she turns around to tell me she wants an abortion?! and that i'm paying half?! I'm not paying **** to kill my ****ing child....right now these words are coming out easily....i haven't broken and cried(already cried multiple times...yea...men cry...)but i feel as if there was an entire section of my life...removed...i'm pro-life...i honestly am against abortion unless there are circumstances such as rape or a VERY young pregnancy(like 14-15). So much happened...the cops got involved...i was told by her mother that i cannot see her again....she pretty much ignored everything i had to say....as if i meant nothing...she even told me "your just an average ****a"...implying that i'm a typical get someone pregnant and leave type father....i know thats not who i am, and i didn't do anything to make her think this way...i think it was her selfish double standard mother....i went as far as calling her mother a self centered bitch...and i told my now ex...that she is a simple bitch just like her mother....i had rode the bus to go and try and talk to her...just to end up nearly getting arrested....and still faced with a situation of someone killing my child...it took TWO people to make this child but it only takes ONE to abort it? I hate women....they have too much ****ing power in this world....we do not decide who lives and who dies...we don't....todays society has assumed that it has taken a role as God....these people are sadly mistaken....someone please give me a reason or convince me that this life is worth living....

 

Man thats fcked up man hopefully she will wake up and do the right thing

 

Oh its worth living and your childs life is worth fighting for......but not with the mother.
Under current law, SHE can decide to kill your baby, you have no say. SHE can decide to keep the baby against your wishes and YOU are required to pay for 18 years. Take her to court and fight for the baby.......National right to life would prolly pay the attorney fees......Someone needs to stand up for mens rights....fathers rights!!! Its your baby too, its your flesh and blood. This is a child who could give you grandchildren.

Just my opinion....I WOULD NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!

 

This will probably make me sound like an ***. Let me say this. I am NOT glad she's getting an abortion.

First off. I dont know how old you are but I'm guessing a lot more than here since you mentioned she's under age. Second there is no reason to have a kid that young. Sorry but there's not. I've never seen a young relationship get stronger or get "fixed" from having a kid at a young age. Ya sometimes they get old and are still together with the kids raised up, BUT there was so much pain and fighting. NO child should have to be in between two grown ups (yes you're a grown up if you have a kid no matter the age, so grow up) cant get their **** straight.

Another thing about having kids at a young age is your not gonna be able to better your life and you spouse's. As in making sure you get an education, a good job, so on and so on. There are so many people popping out kids left and right and get payed less than $10 an hour. People can barely support themselves but still have kids. Then they expect other people to help them out and the government to give them a check to pay for the kid.

Final thing. Wear a condom. THEY DO NOT COST THAT MUCH. Also women. Its ok for ya'll to carry them too.

 

Don't give up on this one...ya gotta fight for what YOU believe in man

 

man hugs? idk what to say. im sorry man

 

 

i swear to god i want to kill myself right now.....

 

I just started crying and i know its not the ****ing end......i called her...stupid me....found out more info than i wanted...she is firm on her decision and is getting the abortion

 

Dont wont solve a thing. Actually will cause more grief for those who love n care for you.