If you dont want to be with her leave, sometimes its easier said then done...but most the time it only gets worse

 

The key to ANY good relationship is communication. Sometimes you have to drop all your inhibitions and your hurt feelings and get past the pain and just talk about it. However, I don't know the full situation and it sounds like there is more going on here. If you truly care about the relationship, I completely agree 100% with Woo, listen to the man, he knows what he's saying. Go to a counselor and try to work things out. If not, then leave, it's hard but can be done and in the case you don't care, it'll be better in the long run.

Btw, dunno how many people know this, but statistics show cohabitation before marriage leads to divorce more often than not.

 

Does she have some one else?
She is tired of you?
Are you tired of her?

The last two are good for counceling

 

If she is not at work then she is at home. She works 2 jobs and has 1 weekend off a month and usually spends it sleeping. At times I get the feel that she tired of me and at times I am of her. The constant mood swings is a real pain in the ***.

 

living with people drives people apart, i can vouch for that

 

There is probably some good advice here, but wot this basically comes down to is, how you feel about it, or more to the point how much you want your relationship to go. Is this person worth your effort? Seems to me your both kicking wot ever life it had left to death anyway. You still have issues over your divorce & to your current partner that would **** her off greatly. Which goes a long way in explaining her attitude toward you. Treating you like a child is her way of trying to get some control of the situation. You have both dug a pretty deep hole here, up to both if you want to crawl out of it or not.

 

Well said Pacemaker

 

Is it so important to work so much? She works for money, or for the relationship that needs money to survive? I don't get it...

People now a days works for your money or for your family?...

Do i make sense?