I have been reading all the posts along the way. Thanks everyone for their help. I think I may have anothe talk with them tomorrow when i am actually in the mood to talk to them. I really don't have problems with girls liking me wet, I only work, and have no real time for girls. i do want to go to shows though and some of them run into dark hours and that is the time they said no riding.

 

it just takes time for them to warm up to the idea. most people think that @ night its more dangerous , but i perfer to ride at night. its very peaceful for me anyways. i just usually try to be off the roads beofre 2am wether im in a car or on the bike because thats when bars close out and i dont wanna risk it with a bunch of drunks on the road. anyways back on point. just talk with them voice your concerns and listen to theirs. but remember its is legal for you to ride @ night , you are an adult so you have to learn to make choices . tell them that owning a bike isnt just fun its also shows that you can be a mature adult and ride safely and that riding in all situations is just part of you learning to grow up and make the best decisions as you see fit .