Jaynd and I have been together for almost 3 yrs and I can honestly say that if he gave some random girl a ride, I would have to hunt her down... but the same goes for me, I would never give some guy a ride because I know how angry I would be if he gave some girl a ride. I say that if you THINK your girl wouldn't like it, she probably won't and it's not worth it if you love her.

 

+1 on that one!

Courtney was my best friend before we were married. I even had a GF of 7yrs when I met Courtney. She is bad *** and I guess I now know why I waited 33 years to find the "right one".

The only other person EVER on my bike is my wife, and years ago it would have been the GF at the time, no one else.

 

Are either of these girls worth giving up what you already have? If not, keep control of yourself and stay away from them!

Personally, I think RCR said it best.

 

I take girls for rides quite a bit, but they have to be cool with my girlfriend first. They are always mutual friends of ours anyways, so they know the boundaries. Honestly though its kind of a chore if you ask me. Having a noob on the back is annoying, its harder to get the bike to behave, and they cant handle 40mph, cause at first, that feels like 100 on a bike. Its cool if you need to get some, but other then that, not worth it.

 

There are a few girls that I could take for a ride, but they are friends of my wife and I. I would have no reason to let a strange girl ride with me, though. I really don't think my wife would be uber pissed, but she would want an explanation. We are both very trusting of eachother, but that would be a really wierd situation. Oh, and if your girl is super jealous...she needs to grow up. A partner that is jealous (male or female) is a liability.

 

I don't take anyone on any rides. My bike is for ME. I bought it for ME. I put the rear cowl on for ME. I removed the rear pegs for ME.........ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. ME.

 

I've got to play devils advocate...

While both are generally frowned upon, a guy giving a girl a ride is hardly similar to some dude ramming his cack up your girlfriends *** while she's bent over...

Big difference.

 

true, I agree... didn't really think about that... but in my opinion, a girl on the back is bad news since her ***** are pressed on his back and her hands are free to roam in the front... but yeah, that goes both ways... like I said before, if you THINK it would bother your girl OR guy, don't do it...

 

the only girls i will give rides to are my g/f or a good friend(alot of my friends are girls)...and if my g/f has a problem with a female friend of mine riding on my bike, she needs to not be so jealous...cause theyre just friends

i would never give some random girl a ride, whether or not i was single, whether or not she had gear...i need to trust someone to let them ride with me

 

Foxy said it best! I bought my 'naner seat F4ito ride the wife (not only but is was a big consideration), but I selfishly suggested she get her own. It turned out well in the end, because she wanted her own bike anyway. Bonus!