It seems to me that you have feelings from the past and they are still in your head. I know how you feel, but I know now to always move forward. I went back a few times and it never worked out and the one time I really tried everything in my power to show her that I changed, but she could only see me for who I use to be. I was once told to always move forward and learn from the past. I still love my one Ex alot and think about her every day, butknow from the last time that it could never work out no matter what and I would never try it again.

I'm not saying that you and your Ex could not make it work-anything is possible, but the odds are it would not work due to her still seeing you for the guy you use to be and not who you are now.

Love is a bitch of a game take it from me. I'm 30 and single becasue I will not settle for just anyone and I have worked to hard to get where I'm at now to blow it. I would rather be single the rest of my life to the marry the wrong person and live a life in hell.

I say save yourself the heartache and move on and sever the ties now before your feelings get any depper for her. You will always have feelings for your first real love, but you have to learn from the past and move on.

 

I would take the advise from the women on this thread. Three years is a long time to not talk to each other. If you were really in love it wouldnt have taken this long to contact each other. By the way does this sound like it could be written up in a country song? Lol good luck

 

You know what bro i am gonna give you the best advice i think you can truely be given at this point. I was in a similar situation and it didnt work out when we got back together, HOWEVER, that doesnt go to say that people havent done the same thing and had it WORK OUT! the problem is when you take advice you arent listening to yourself... Only you know whats best for you and if its a mistake you made it not someone else who told you to not get back or to get back with her. Just follow your heart man and everything works out in the end.

Good luck!

-Nick-

 

move on man, get some new, you see what happens to eminem everytime he goes back with kim lol

seriously, just be good friends and keep it at a slow pace....

 

well.. i have moved forward.. had girlfriends since.. but she was definately better.

 

you are still hooked up... you need more girlfriends until you know who is the one.

any other that catches your eye?

 

im currently talking to a couple of girls up here that go to Ithaca College. nothing serious and they are pretty bland girls.

ive been getting "hooked up" from coast to coast, and still hung on one.

 

Well... give it a try!! But stay focus, keep your eye on the ball and give it a 100%.

Because if you don't, you will be saying "what if i had done it?"

 

thats what i was afraid of..

gotta do it.

ill keep you all posted, but its going to be a long haul. maybe

 

Good luck!!! Probably is the love of your life... but you will never know if you don't do it. Again... Remember that realationships take comitment both ways!!! (sorry not good on spelling).