So heres the update i get a text and she says we need to setup a time for me to give her stuff back which is like 3 items....Meh.[sm=boohoo.gif]
Should i be nice or tolerable, try to see if theres any resolution of getting back or just plain ignore it

 

just give her things back to her and move on. bad things happen and you cant chnage them . its easier to just keep your feet moving, because when you stop and look back it only hurts more.

 

Text her back saying you'll mail it to her at your convenience.
Right now is not the time to be seeing her again.
Maybe in 6mo-1 year you two can start being cordial to each other... maybe even friends again.
But there is wayy too much gasoline spilled there right now to be playing with sparks near that. Meeting soo soon after the breakup is just opening the door to start messing with each other over loose ends. Give yourself (and her) time/distance to let the smoke clear.

 

Be civil...and get it over with fast! Then, go to the bar with some buds, get drunk, and tea bag some chick you scrounge up at the end of the night. Then, the next morning, shave your tongue, and have pizza for breakfast. If the weather cooperates, go for a ride later in the afternoon. You'll feel better after a while. You just have to get past the part that hurts. There is nothing anyone can say that will make you feel better. You will just wake up one day, and realize youdidn't think of her first thing. You will start thinking about her less and less, until you are finally okay. Just takes time, Bro.

 

Go ugly early my friend... But have friendsto watch your back, theyll give you ****t for it, but they'll keep you from getting into trouble.

 

On her way over i told her 10 minutes to get over here.. lets see how this rolls...

 

just be civil, give her her things and then let her be on her way. dont stop and tak about how eachother is, just make it fast and as painless as possible and whatever you do dont try and hug or kiss "1 last goodbye" .. good luck and be strong were all behind ya [sm=smiley20.gif]

 

That did not go well at all. i mean at all

It was like i did the opposite of everything everyone said

 

[sm=icon_beat.gif]... its ok i knew you would. it happens to the best of us. just take a look @ how youre feeling right now and remember that you never want to feel like this again !