Ok, ok now I will retract the retraction ..but its a big word and I dont understand big words very well, they mess with my head too!! ;-)

Steve and Keri, my new mum and dad ..yeay!! ..thanku :-)


Jules

 

In Havoc*s case its totally different from the normal missing your partener thing .. thats why I originally said there is something else going on here for him to feel so unsettled and as it transpired there was ...he has been cut off from her in a very cruel way I think, and its the lack of contact and hearing anything at all from her that is causing his stress ..the not knowing can be a terrible thing .. your imagination can run riot

I hope you hear from her very soon Havoc but in the meantime please take care of yourself ..its all you can do just now

All my hopes for you :-)

Jules

 

Is she like "ok" ? does she work for the North or the South ? or is there a Northand a South ? not up on my Vietnam here latley the whole thing sounds pretty crazy damn !! Any way I get how ya feel, you miss yer woman,nothin wrong with that. Sounds to me you needed to get things off yer chest

 

I really like what Spirit said and Kewl backed up. I was addicted to my first wife. I couldn't imagine a life without her, and when things started going bad for us, I wanted to die. Years later, she is a person I would never be attracted to starting with personality. I have realized that I had nothing else going on, and with her as my only source of emotional investment, I was a sick pup without her.

You know doubt have things headed in the right direction. Do you have any idea how/when/if you are going to be together or communicate with her again? I can totally see the not knowing anything messing with ANYBODY! Of course, I wish you the best.