My last girl was pretty farkin bad about clutter. It was very specific clutter though. She drank water out of bottles all of the time. You could always expect to find her with a bottle of water.. and they usually ended up everywhere. I remember pulling 16 bottles out from around different spots in just one room when I was cleaning one day. She also had a problem with leaving tissues around.. I cant stand used tissues >_<

 

I own half the garage and one room, where I keep all my bike gear.
Spirit, can I join your support group....?
I've never had the vacuum cleaner choke on a thong, though...dayum !
Buy your lady a watercooler Woo hehe[X(]

 

MY gf is from Japan.. she cooks, cleans, does pretty much anything I ask... it's pretty much like I have a full time maid that loves me. It's wonderful I suggest dating anyone that's not american and lazy and you'll never go back!

 

This is all very strange to me ..every woman I know is clean and tidy, I am and so are my friends ... its actally a rarity to come across a woman slob here, we are very hosue proud ... here its more likely to be the guys who are messy, seems things have switched across the pond??

Jules

 

well most people here treat there daughters like they are freaking princesses and dont make them work for ****, so they grow up and learn NOTHING.
it's stupid as hell. but it happens every day. In Europe the guys "nothing personal" dont care as much about their daughters.. that's their wife's job. and they teach them everything.


just different cultures. you find one girl in Europe that doesn't have a closer relationship with their mom vs their dad? no it doesnt happen. here tho, lots of girls giggle and **** and say "yup im daddies little angel!"

dont you wanna just punch them in the face?


lol jk about the face punching..

but the rest???

here's a picture for all you women in America.

 

Well, I came from a very hard working family ..both my mum and dad worked hard for what they had and us kids were made to appreciate everything we had and got ... my parents came from the era of if you cant afford stuff you do without and save for them (if you can) ..that makes you very appreciative of what you have and if you buy something new, because you had to save, it felt sweeter when you finally got it .. they never spoiled us, I did have a close relationship with my dad though ... much more so than mum and I spent most of my time with him, he wasnt spoiling me though ..lol ..when I was small he was making me do things like hold the torch while he worked on his car or his bike, later I actually helped him with the restoration business he had and of course he taught me how to ride a bike, he always called me his angel but spoiled never came into it ... I feel these days people get "stuff" way to easy and whine if they cant have it it instantly ..its all become about instant self gratification and fast results ..cant afford it?? ..well hell, just take out a big *** loan to get it and maybe lose it somewhere down the line seems to prevail these days .. I saved up every penny I made and bought my bike cash at age 23 .. I feel certain something has been lost in this "modern" world .. I blame the media too, our children are now brought up with images of perfect people having everything they want in life ..beautiful houses, kitchens, expensive cars all seems to be thrust upon us as the "norm" now and not something that means you are lucky if you have all that ... I think its insidious and it changes peoples pysche into "I want" and "me me me" and "I deserve" and they rebel and kick off and whine if they cant have what they see others having ... ok I am going to stop now ..its just some of what I see and its obviously making people unhappy ..we do need to get back to more traditional values ..if we can


Jules

 

The days of easy credit are what brought the US (and a lot of the world) to the economic brink it's facing now.

 

I fear you are very right ...


Jules

 

Exactly, they are taught, usually by single mothers that are slobs that they don't need men or that they shouldn't be a man's servant. I agree with that to a point, but the breakdown is that they aren't told that if they have a partner, they need to up their game to match their the other persons. I don't mind women not cooking, they grow up being told they have to be thin and sexy and I can understand how cooking can get in the way of that. Plus I love to cook and I really don't like other peoples cooking that much, so I'll just take care of the food situation. It seems like women just don't get the concept of 'partner', ifone is neat, thenthe othershould be. In the end, organized and neat people are more productive and more successful, it carries through to the way they think, work, invest, and in general justsolving problems.

Anyway, she has been gone for a few days visiting relatives, my house is organized again, she gets home tomorrow, so I guess I need to ask her to just straighten up for20 minutes a day. That should be enough since the maid comes twice a month to do the scrubbing aspects of the cleaning thing.

 

I fear some or maybe a lot of this may also be down to the breakup of the family unit ... children I believe need two parents for balance ..these days of family breaks up causes far more reaching problems than people realise ... of course I dont advocate that you keep a bad marriage together for the sake of the kids but family break up is the scourge of modern society and has no where good to go!!

Bitter parents may then colour their childs perception of the opposite gender to a point where they are seen as the enemy ..men and women are meant to compliment one another and live in peace together, not at odds or bickering ..its all become about a lack of respect ..no respect, no love!!

Jules