So when I go to start the bike normally I hear the fuel pump wind up. tonight after running for a while then stoping to fill up, went to start it and it would crank but not start up. full pump isn't winding up when I switch the pump on. gas is fine, battery too.

oh! i should say that I have an alarm and Im guessing that it has a fuel shut off system too. I currently have the security system bypassed and it has been starting and running like a top great!! So I can't imagine what the prob could be.

 

you might want to check the fuse for your tip sensor. f4i's are known for blocking those. and if it is. it won't let your fuel pump prime. it happened to me just yesterday my bike was warming up, and I want to get on it and turned my handle bars. and my bike died. I pop the tip sensor fuse. hope that helps.
P.S. under your seat. just check them all to be safe. good luck