Man, if this doesn't fall under the mentoring category. I don't know, what does I would have maybe not worded it as strongly as Spirit did. But statistically, the odds on her being pregnant, regardless of where the condom was stored. If there was no visible leak . The likelihood of bleedthrough is slim to none and if a spermicide lubricated condom was used. The odds drop drastically as to whether or not she is suffering from what is known in clinical terms as pseudo-pregnancy is not something I'mwilling to armchair quarterback. But my Malaysian friend also has a very valid point. The likelihood of you impregnating her with two trips to the plate and using proper gear would be damn near called immaculate conception . Now, most individuals here with a military background, especially those familiar with the country in which she is visiting would say right off the bat. You have hooked yourself a ID card chaser, whether that is true or not is best for you to decide. No one other than yourself, and her are aware of how your relationship has developed and where you're at in it. From a different perspective, you must take into account by no fault of yours or hers. You both are still operating with a reactionary mind and are living in the twilight years that proceed. The time in your life when you'll be graced with your own logic based upon gained knowledge in life. And that wonderful gift of five seconds to rationalize a situation and take everything into account.. okay is she using this to see if you're going to stand your ground and be back her side. Regardless of what your family and hers things. Is this a tactic to see if you are willing to stay if it happens for real. Is she feeling awkward about having sex with you at this point in your relationship because of the outside pressure from others.

Now I truly believe it is a combination of the last part of the above statement. I would like to add a hate doing this over the Internet. This is something that should be done man to man, eye to eye I truly hope you can locate someone a couple of years older than you with some real-world experience to sit down and discuss this whole matter with

 

Man, you sound just like me when I was 18, my gf had the same simptoms and then she was late like 3 days, I was freaking out, but turned out to be nothing. Don't stress out yourself partner, take it easy, otherwise you're going to blow a headgasket.

 

I just want to give you some peace of mind and tell you that she is NOT pregnant.

I know she feels like she is, and you are freaking on the whole old condom thing. Unless you put it in unwrapped before and had a little fun before putting the condom on, youre fine. There is only 4 days in any given month that a woman can get preggers.

She is young and doesnt even know what "pregnant" feels like. And honestly, it feels the same damn way right before you get your period. All the symtoms your telling me is that she is getting her period. BTW, you dont get pregnancy symtoms that early to begin with.

Your going to be okay Daddy!

 

Alright, even if she misses her period dont be alarmed buddy. I will tell you right now from first hand experience on more than one girl that has missed her period. If you F*CK the day before or somewhere close to it, it can cause a girl to be late or completely miss a whole month. Which in most peoples eyes would be a gift from god because we didnt have to put up with her annoying *** for one time, but others will stress out about it.

Also with the throwing up and back pain and stuff. My buddy had a girl that wanted a baby really bad and she actually made her body act like she really was. Missed a period, threw up, back pain. The whole shibang, her mind was completely set that she was pregnant because she wanted it so badly. Come to find out she wasnt even pregnant at all. She was just a nut.

The human brain is nuts man. You can cause yourself to be sick just by thinking it hard a long enough. All kinds of weird things go on with the human body because of **** that goes on in your own head.

I would also just like to point out the 5 - 7 days sperm can stay inside a woman to meet up with the time she can get pregnant. So its more like 11 days out of every month that she can get pregnant, not 4.

http://www.positive.org/Home/faq/pregnancy.html read this and you can get a little more info on this pregnancy stuff. And just incase you are lazy and dont want to click anymore. here is what it says.

could I be pregnant?
We get more questions about pregnancy than any other topic: [*]We had sex with our clothes on, could I be pregnant?[*]He came outside my vagina, could I be pregnant?[*]Can I get pregnant during my period?[*]We had sex without using birth control, what do I do now?[*]When will I know and how can I tell if I'm pregnant?[*]What do I do if I might be pregnant?
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Before we answer each one of these questions, here's an explanation of how you get pregnant:
First of all, you need to know a little bit about the menstrual cycle. You probably know that a woman gets her period once a month. About two weeks after her period starts, the woman ovulates--that means she releases an egg. The egg then travels down the fallopian tubes towards the uterus. If it doesn't run into any sperm along the way and get fertilized, the egg leaves the woman's body and she has her next period like usual.[*]
The sperm, for their part, swim up to the fallopian tubes from the vagina and hang around looking for an egg. Usually, the sperm need to be released inside the vagina to make it up there. Sometimes, if the sperm are released very, very near to the mouth of the vagina, they can find their way inside. But this is very unusual.[*]
A woman is fertile--meaning she can get pregnant--while an egg is in the fallopian tube. The sperm can live inside a woman for up to 5 to 7 days, so it's possible to get pregnant when you have sex several days before you ovulate because the sperm will be there already waiting for the egg. Likewise, the egg will survive (unfertilized) 24-48 hours after ovulation, so you can easily get pregnant during that time.[*]
This means women are most likely to get pregnant for the two weeks in the middle of their cycle. In other words, one week after their last period started until one week before their next is the most likely time.[*]
However, women's cycle's can be different! We've told you the "textbook" version of how most women's bodies work, not everyone's. Even though ovulation normally happens in the middle of the month, a woman can ovulate at any time. Many things make our cycles change, including changes in diet, changes in the environment and stress.
So it's never "safe" to have sex unless you do it with a condom.[*]

 

say bye bye to the bike and hello manvan

 

LISTEN TO REDD, and the other guys here, she is absolutely NOT pregnant.....in fact....we should start a betting pool? anyone in?


seriously though....its not even TIME for her peroid yet and your freaked? a test wont even show positive until like shes 3 days late at least. she's just slightly nuts and worried about being pregnant and your both freaking yourselves out. i am 25 with 2 little girls....prior to marriage i ran into this a few different months, and its ALWAYS nothing if your using protection. Stop worrying and trust the advice of MANY people older than you, that have way more exprience with this. and too the time out to post for you to understand that she's not pregnant, listen to us.

 

How many times have you guys had sex? My ex and I lost our virginity together, and she totally skipped her next period. Freaked both of us out, but I was told later that it's fairly common.

 

I'm in...

 

F*ck you guys are funny! Well, actually the only post I didnt find too amusing was tellin me to sell the bike and buy the manvan lol but JUST to clarify: We BOTH hate minivans and decided that if we are together for a while, we would never own one...AND she said not to sell the bike if we are preggy. haha, so that will be my escape!

And to clarify on if she might be using me for citizenship or something like that, if it was ever in question:

She is a US citizen, her family lives in germany b/c her dad is retired navy, and has military supplied job out there. They are moving back here to coloradoin 2009. SO yea, she isnt bustin my ***** to be able to live here lol.

 

yeah the manvan a bikers worst nightmare