So I left my wife....
#32
RE: So I left my wife....
first...what the heck is going on with these avatars? as a married mang...i would request that someone come up with a scratch and sniff monitor ASAP! hahahaha...
your ex...sounds like a keeper, someone who would put up with all that and still love you and not give up on you, praying that one day you would love her back...that is an unconditional love...they don't make them like that anymore...
kids need parents who love them more than they love themselves...and in essence, that's what it takes to keep a family together...the focus in a marriage and a family should never be about pleasing oneself, or fulfilling personal needs, but that of the others. once you focus on yourself, the circle becomes tighter and you end up being the only one in it...
goodluck with whatever it is you're looking for.
your ex...sounds like a keeper, someone who would put up with all that and still love you and not give up on you, praying that one day you would love her back...that is an unconditional love...they don't make them like that anymore...
kids need parents who love them more than they love themselves...and in essence, that's what it takes to keep a family together...the focus in a marriage and a family should never be about pleasing oneself, or fulfilling personal needs, but that of the others. once you focus on yourself, the circle becomes tighter and you end up being the only one in it...
goodluck with whatever it is you're looking for.
#34
RE: So I left my wife....
ORIGINAL: JZHALES
this thread is gaaaaaaaaaaay. good luck bro. im gonna go spark a police chase on I-40
this thread is gaaaaaaaaaaay. good luck bro. im gonna go spark a police chase on I-40
#35
#36
RE: So I left my wife....
ORIGINAL: JZHALES
yea i feel for him, im sorta talkin to someone right now myself? uhhh ohh could be trouble on my horizon i fear she may try to trap me in one of these "exclusive relationships"......the cops will be chasin that *** on a 400EX hopefully tomarrow night!
yea i feel for him, im sorta talkin to someone right now myself? uhhh ohh could be trouble on my horizon i fear she may try to trap me in one of these "exclusive relationships"......the cops will be chasin that *** on a 400EX hopefully tomarrow night!
Anyway, I talked with the wife last night, it was hard but we straighten some things out. She is going to stay, and we are going to work a 60/40 custody as soon as I get a place (crashin at a friend's for now). It's working out ok, at least for now. There's no dispute over anything at this point, she doesn't want anything she didn't pay for herself, although I will be leaving her our bedroom set. Seems pretty clean so far, I hope it stays this way. I do know one thing though, every time I see her I feel more and more confident that I made the right choice.
#37
RE: So I left my wife....
Can I be completely forward about a certain topic? As far as"intimate" concerns go, you need to make sure that remains separate, too.When I broke up with my last girlfriend, we would have a rendezvous every once in a while, and it kept screwing everything up. I was the one that made the decision, like you did, and everytime that happened, she expected that we were starting over. Be careful about that!
#38
RE: So I left my wife....
ORIGINAL: voodoochyl
Can I be completely forward about a certain topic? As far as"intimate" concerns go, you need to make sure that remains separate, too.When I broke up with my last girlfriend, we would have a rendezvous every once in a while, and it kept screwing everything up. I was the one that made the decision, like you did, and everytime that happened, she expected that we were starting over. Be careful about that!
Can I be completely forward about a certain topic? As far as"intimate" concerns go, you need to make sure that remains separate, too.When I broke up with my last girlfriend, we would have a rendezvous every once in a while, and it kept screwing everything up. I was the one that made the decision, like you did, and everytime that happened, she expected that we were starting over. Be careful about that!
Ya that's hard man, I could tell she wanted to yesterday when I went over there, but I can't dick her around like that (no pun intended). As a matter of fact, the last time we were intimate was about 3 weeks ago. Once I made the decision, I didn't feel comfortable sleeping with her while I conjured up the nerve to tell her. I felt like it would be using her and I didn't want that, seemed morally wrong ya know?
#39
RE: So I left my wife....
yea relationships suck sometime i was dating my ex for a while and i was going to ask her to marry me i went out and bought the ring and everything planned it all outand a week before i was going to pop the question we got into a little arguement and she said it wasnt workin she wouldnt talk to me at all still hasnt as matter of fact but i held onto the ring for a little hoping she would come around she never has jewlery store has a no return on things over 1000 so i took it to a pawn shop and got my a#$ ripped but got rid of it man i was pissed!!
#40
RE: So I left my wife....
ORIGINAL: 95HondaCBRF3
yea relationships suck sometime i was dating my ex for a while and i was going to ask her to marry me i went out and bought the ring and everything planned it all outand a week before i was going to pop the question we got into a little arguement and she said it wasnt workin she wouldnt talk to me at all still hasnt as matter of fact but i held onto the ring for a little hoping she would come around she never has jewlery store has a no return on things over 1000 so i took it to a pawn shop and got my a#$ ripped but got rid of it man i was pissed!!
yea relationships suck sometime i was dating my ex for a while and i was going to ask her to marry me i went out and bought the ring and everything planned it all outand a week before i was going to pop the question we got into a little arguement and she said it wasnt workin she wouldnt talk to me at all still hasnt as matter of fact but i held onto the ring for a little hoping she would come around she never has jewlery store has a no return on things over 1000 so i took it to a pawn shop and got my a#$ ripped but got rid of it man i was pissed!!