these guys are right, if she's not aacting like she cares....you should do the same and see what happens. dont flounder along trying the same old stuff.....move on, meet friends, and have fun......and RIDE!.

 

Leave her. Stop talking to her. Its like getting off an addication. The best way is going cold turkey but you know its going to be hard.

 

I didnt read anyone elses response but my opinion is to let it go. easier said than done I know but will save yourself some headache. just my .02

 

Ouch! I feel your pain, brother. Do you love her enough to let her go? That would be a nice "gift". That's what I did, then put her name on my licence-plate, cuz she (Maevis) was the one. Also worth considering that you are turning a page in the book of your developement as a man. It's hard to move forward with too much baggage. With the good, comes the bad and everything happens for a reason. Yesterday is dead and gone, you can't go back. Tomorrow may not come, fack tomorrow! All we got is right here, right now. To thine own self be true. I'm up all night, stressin' too, and it ain't no fun. Late for work, drive like a jerk, yell at the kid, all cuz of some ****e I have no control over. Sucks ! Good luck. Pax, G.

 

this is good advice, i was in a relationship about 4 years ago, things gotsort ofserious, we were talking about getting married and all that, and then all of a sudden (seemingly out of nowhere) she tells me she wants time apart and not to call her or try to go to her house for the next two weeks. i was just sitting there thinking "wtf, where the hell did this come from?" at the time i figured it was because she was seeing someone else (and she probably was, although i don't know for sure and really don't care anymore). it consumed me day and night, i was absolutely miserable. here i had a girl that i thought i'd spend the rest of my life with, and now she doesn't want anything to do with me. it was pathetic really, every time my phone would ring i'd rush to it, hoping it would be her. even at work, every time the phone rang, deep down inside i was hoping it was her calling, wanting to talk to me. fortunately for me, a good friend of mine was going through the same thing with his girl, so we both spent a lot of time together. every day after work we'd go to my parents' house and work on the '72 Chevelle SS sitting out in the barn. or we'd find something else to do, anything to occupy our time so we didn't have to think about how ****ty everything else was. after a while, we (the girl and i) started to talk some, but i could tell she didn't have the same feelings for me that i had for her, so i decided i was going to move on. i stopped calling her, when she'd call i'd let the voicemail pick up and then call her back later, pretending like i was busy doing something other than hoping she would call, and over time the pain started to ease. it wasn't easy, in fact i hope i NEVER haveto go through that again. but after a while i finally just got over it. i had good friends that kept me company, people i could talk to that would listen when i was feeling down, and it got me through it. of course after she realized i was through worrying about her, she called saying she wanted to start dating again if i had feelings for her anymore. for a split second i considered saying yes, but i made the smartest decision of my life and told her to never call me again. about a month later i met the girl that i'm now engaged to and will be marrying next summer. we've been together for 3 1/2 years and have been livi

 

fill a box with packing peanuts and put dog dookie in it... she will dig around and get poo on her fingers...


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i didnt read but the first couple of replies.. but if you care about her and think there is a chance.. go for it... or a card atleast... so if she goes crazy on you, its only like $1.99 you loose

 

i'm picturing my ex opening a package from me, wondering what could possibly be inside... is it a farewell gift? does he want me back? .......and then comes out with sh*t on her fingers... and i can't stop laughing

 

Run away and hide from your ex's.

 

nah....not the same one, but if i meet one with a mom thats been divorced 4 times im running for the hills! they dont say, "like mother like daughter" or "she get it from her momma" for nothing.

 

that's the damn truth. looking back, i guess i was mostly attracted physically, cause she WAS pretty easy. her older sister had the same problems, inherrited it from her mom too i guess. it's funny how at the time i probably knew i was in for some trouble with this girl, but for whatever reason i couldn't resist. i'm just glad i got away from all of that now.