lol plus!!!! they'll cut your grass for FREE!

 

yeah selling the bike would be dumb if he can afford it, why do you say that. if you have children you shouldn't ride, come on man.

 

You've got ISSUES...

Yes, the moment you become a father, your life stops being your own. But if you embrace fatherhood, it is the most rewarding experience you'll ever have on your life. I just think you started too darn young, as demonstrated by your attitude.
Make DARN SURE you stay in good terms with her, AND HER FAMILY.
otherwise statutory rape laws are a bitch. (dont know where you're at, but depending on where you live, that's something else that can be held over your head if you're not careful.

Oh, BTW, how does she feel about you, and the whole situation?

 

Start saving money, 18 years of child support is EXPENSIVE!

 

exactly..come on guys!! trust me i am all for having bikes and kids at the same time.. I DO!! but do you honestly think that regardless of the financial situation that a 16 year old girl is mentally ready to care for a newborn child on her own? i think not! anyway the guy asked for opinions and mine just happens to be right!

and bornluckee, look up the statistics of people getting hit by garbage trucks compared to people dying in motorcycle accidents! then i will think your point is valid, until then [sm=lame.gif]

 

my friend had a kid at 19, he and the mother(also my friend) are still good friends. but due to her being in college and him trying to get back on his feet from being in jail and kicked outta his house(his mom is crazy and attacked him with a shovel and he stood up to her, which is why he was in jail) they put the kid up for adoption to a family who will let the kid know that they are not the birth parents and allow the mom and dad to visit them when ever.
id look into adoption man, sure you can still care for the kid, but it wont financially put that big of a burden on ya at this age.

 

Ty,
I was a daddy when I was twenty (like you will be), found out my girl was preggers when I was nineteen...one and a half years out of highschool. At the moment of my son's birth I had a reason to be alive. It validated my reason for being on the planet. I ended up having a second child with this woman...then we had a horrible divorce a few years later!!! On my rebound relationship, I got that girl pregnant and spent three and a half years with her in a "white knuckled" relationship, I did NOT marry her (hint hint), because I knew I wasn't in-love. I guess the point I am trying to make is, your life has changed for the good, but don't expect to spend the rest of your life with a girl who is sixteen...especially when you are only nineteen. Do not get married, and expect that you will both be different people in five years...then ten years...and so on. Please give yourself time to figure out whoyou are. Sorry about the long post. Good luck.

 

I'm only 20 years old and I don't have any kids, but I've learned a lot througout my years. I believe I'm more mature than people my age, and sometimes even people older than me. When it comes to children, do what's best for them. They're the future. How you treat them now will impact their lives forever. Whether or not you sell your bike, think of your kid first. Also, don't rush into marriage. You shouldn't marry somebody just because they have your child. You should marry your best friend because sex isn't everything. OldFatGuy is right; you truly learn what the definition of sacrifice is when you have your kids. There is not one person is the whole world that will tell you that taking care of a child is easy. Remember that.

 

Forgot to add CONGRATS!

 

Well thanks for all the comments, i listen to everyones opinion and yeh all you guys are prolly rite in your ways....Me and this girl are gunna try to see if we are capable of staying together she really likes me i know that and she wont even consider abortion she thinks its murder, my mom says she just trying to trap me but i dont really know? Honestly dont care whats done is done......im definatly not getting married anytime soon screw that. As for stat. rape......i have at least 2 friends who have babies or are gunna have with underage girls and they arent in any trouble so i should be alrite there. Um a lot of you prolly dont agree (obviously) but its my life and im keeping my bike its almost paidoff it gets great gas mileage and ive taken basic rider classes and advanced im highly skilled at riding in traffic not that it matters where i live there aint **** for traffic but either way i agree with the whole "could get hurt getting out of bed" mantra as opposed to wrecking/ being hit on my bike, yes im aware of the statistics but I just cant do it, riding is in my blood. Ill never not have a bike soooo sorry if you think this is wrong but it is my life not yours. no offense. My child will not be daddyless as long as i can help it. Ive had way closer calls in my truck than i have had on my bike not that it really matters......basically selling it is out of the question ill quit rding as much/ take off insurance etc. if i must for my kid. In addition to me wanting it my girl also doesnt want me to sell lol i know thats prolly knieve to some of you cuz she is in fact 16 but honestly you cats dont know her and she is very mature, as am I.

So thanks for all your input i really appreciate it who needs a counsler when i got cbrforum lol