Me picking up my stuff was her idea, but she didn't have enough guts to call me, so she brought my stuff ( a freeking steering wheel from my ps2, and she knows that my ps2 been broke for a long time and I really didn't want the steering wheel back anyway, it was just an excuse for her to bother me I guess) to her mothers house and had her call me, one thing that suprised me is that they were very nice to me, we talked for 2 hours about things, if that was me I'd throw the stuff out and tell the jack *** that waisted 7 years of my daughters life to take a hike, so I am very confused why they were very nice to me, and her step dad asked me if I wanted to ride with him, it wasn't my idea, and I've ran into him at the local bike nights, I really wasn't looking for him or anything like that, and I didn't want to be a ******** and just walk by him without saying hi. We broke up because her time was always occupied with work, she never had time for me, so I left, and now al of a sudden she wants to communicate, that just doesn't make sence.

 

I didn't have any tactics, all I was doing is working, spending some time with her and just living normal life, but it was frustrating when she said that the way things were going I'll never get on my feet, it was kind of a low blow if you ask me. She didn't believe in me.

 

Welcome to the mind of a woman. Scary isnt it.

 

Hey now...Not all of us are crazy..lol

 

Marriage is awesome, everyone should do it 3 or 4 times.

 

i don't know man, it seems like you gotta think about this one for a bit... like your having a hard time figuring out what going on:
kinda sounds like you need to get your story straight to me. and generally in my history, the woman is the one who remembers the little things. so If it was me, and you still aren;t over her like you said, and you have SOME interest in getting back together, you two need to just talk it out. Go be that stereotypical couple thatgoes to starbucks and just sits there and talk it out. no preconcieved notions going in. figure out what was wrong, what was good, and what needs to be different. thats always worked out for me. again, my 2 cents

 

You're special.

 

Don't worry about it just move on and get a new girl.

 

I don't drink coffee so no starbucks for me, and you're right I do have hard time figuring out what's going on, and that frustrates the hell out of me sometimes.

 

I tryed that too, I've dated 19 girls since I broke up with my ex, but just didn't click with them or something, I don't know, and I get hit on by the ladies at my new job, but it makes me uncomfortable, all my coworkers make fun of me for that. I just like to keep my life simple, I wake up, take a shower, go to work, ride my bike, go to the gym and get ready for the next day, that's pretty much it. And when my friends do drag me out to the clubs/bars on the weekends, I just drink little bit, chill and go home. And they always trying to hook me up with one of their friends, I hate that.