Best friend and their girlfriends...
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RE: Best friend and their girlfriends...
ORIGINAL: fuze
haha. sure tuff guy. I wont start some e-fight but your ***** are obviously bigger on the internet then real life. We both know your scrony *** wouldn't say that to my face.
I'll let it go, you win big guy.
seriously you see him every other day, what more do you want from the guy. It's not up to you to decide his women, you need to stay out of the middle of their relationship.
haha. sure tuff guy. I wont start some e-fight but your ***** are obviously bigger on the internet then real life. We both know your scrony *** wouldn't say that to my face.
I'll let it go, you win big guy.seriously you see him every other day, what more do you want from the guy. It's not up to you to decide his women, you need to stay out of the middle of their relationship.
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RE: Best friend and their girlfriends...
ORIGINAL: fuze
haha. sure tuff guy. I wont start some e-fight but your ***** are obviously bigger on the internet then real life. We both know your scrony *** wouldn't say that to my face.I'll let it go, you win big guy.
seriously you see him every other day, what more do you want from the guy. It's not up to you to decide his women, you need to stay out of the middle of their relationship.
haha. sure tuff guy. I wont start some e-fight but your ***** are obviously bigger on the internet then real life. We both know your scrony *** wouldn't say that to my face.
I'll let it go, you win big guy.seriously you see him every other day, what more do you want from the guy. It's not up to you to decide his women, you need to stay out of the middle of their relationship.
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RE: Best friend and their girlfriends...
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My best friend left his girlfriend of almost 7 years for a new girl like 10 months ago. His old girlfriend was awesome and I became good friends with her, and I often ask myself how the hell did he leave her for the new onewho at first seemed cool but as she started to "loosen up" after first meeting her she turned into a total bitch.
My friend and I are roommates also, and there is not a single night where she stays at her own place so I have to put up with her **** every single day and my friend doesn't do **** anymore unless it involves her. Needless to say shes not into the same things I am and my friend 'used to be' into
They have to be together every waking moment and it drives me nuts... He never wants to go to the bars (gf's not 21).. Won't go to a party (college town) unless it's one of her friends where she would be going...Never wants to go shoot pool (she won't come with she don't like pool) We used to go fishing all the freakin time it was like both our fav things to do and now he won't do that despite the fact we live 10 mins away from 2 lakes that he has never even seen or tried because she is non stop talking about how ****ty fishing is and she hates it.
I have told him multiple times he needs to ditch the bitch every once in a while and come hang out with me and our other roommates but she's got his ***** on a leash and it drives me insane.
So ya I know what you're feelin
My best friend left his girlfriend of almost 7 years for a new girl like 10 months ago. His old girlfriend was awesome and I became good friends with her, and I often ask myself how the hell did he leave her for the new onewho at first seemed cool but as she started to "loosen up" after first meeting her she turned into a total bitch.
My friend and I are roommates also, and there is not a single night where she stays at her own place so I have to put up with her **** every single day and my friend doesn't do **** anymore unless it involves her. Needless to say shes not into the same things I am and my friend 'used to be' into
They have to be together every waking moment and it drives me nuts... He never wants to go to the bars (gf's not 21).. Won't go to a party (college town) unless it's one of her friends where she would be going...Never wants to go shoot pool (she won't come with she don't like pool) We used to go fishing all the freakin time it was like both our fav things to do and now he won't do that despite the fact we live 10 mins away from 2 lakes that he has never even seen or tried because she is non stop talking about how ****ty fishing is and she hates it.
I have told him multiple times he needs to ditch the bitch every once in a while and come hang out with me and our other roommates but she's got his ***** on a leash and it drives me insane.
So ya I know what you're feelin
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RE: Best friend and their girlfriends...
Wow, fuze, generally I enjoy hearing your input, but you completely went out of line and attacked for no reason on this one.
Nauree's point was that he sees his friend in an unhealthy relationship. Most of the time your best friend (if you're both decent people) is gonna have your best interest in mind.
I've seen friends in bad relationships before and told them, not because I was hurt they weren't hanging out with me, but because I saw them becoming less of a person. I knew that, in the end, either they would be a shell of the person they used to be, or they would end up hurt by the very same woman that took them away from us.
No offense either, but you DO seem like the antisocial kind. Not in a bad way, I have friends like that too. But you're just satisfied with your woman, from what you've been saying, you sound married?
As far as I believe, my best friends (2 of them) mean the world to me, and if they said I was changing, or that the girl I'm with was bad for me, I would REALLY be looking into it. I love my girl to death, but I trust my friends with everything, as I do my girl, but the trust is different. A trust for your woman is built on the fact that they complete you, you are essential to each other, thus you have to trust in a way. The complete trust of a friend is given and gained. It's a more solid trust between friends, a stronger bond as far as friendships go (love is only greater because it's a bigger part of our brains emotional makeup)
Nauree's point was that he sees his friend in an unhealthy relationship. Most of the time your best friend (if you're both decent people) is gonna have your best interest in mind.
I've seen friends in bad relationships before and told them, not because I was hurt they weren't hanging out with me, but because I saw them becoming less of a person. I knew that, in the end, either they would be a shell of the person they used to be, or they would end up hurt by the very same woman that took them away from us.
No offense either, but you DO seem like the antisocial kind. Not in a bad way, I have friends like that too. But you're just satisfied with your woman, from what you've been saying, you sound married?
As far as I believe, my best friends (2 of them) mean the world to me, and if they said I was changing, or that the girl I'm with was bad for me, I would REALLY be looking into it. I love my girl to death, but I trust my friends with everything, as I do my girl, but the trust is different. A trust for your woman is built on the fact that they complete you, you are essential to each other, thus you have to trust in a way. The complete trust of a friend is given and gained. It's a more solid trust between friends, a stronger bond as far as friendships go (love is only greater because it's a bigger part of our brains emotional makeup)
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RE: Best friend and their girlfriends...
Also your friends see you in 3rd person. Everyone thinks they know what they're doing. Let someone watch you, they'll have some good input for you.
I love watching people. If I'm at a party or whatever, I shut my mouth and just watch people. My friends think I'm shy, but I just watch and listen to people.
Everyone thinks they know what they're doing. Let someone watch you, they'll have some good input for you.I love watching people. If I'm at a party or whatever, I shut my mouth and just watch people. My friends think I'm shy, but I just watch and listen to people.
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I love watching people. If I'm at a party or whatever, I shut my mouth and just watch people. My friends think I'm shy, but I just watch and listen to people.
I love watching people. If I'm at a party or whatever, I shut my mouth and just watch people. My friends think I'm shy, but I just watch and listen to people.
Dude I wouldn't sweat it about your friend. You might never hang out with the guy again or you might run into him later on in life and reconnect. I don't know.. to me friends are just what they are.. friends. They come and go. I've yet to meet any really good friends. Girls do change people and you know.. to each his own. He might choose to live his life his own way and you need to live yours your way. I dunno. I've gone through lots of friends over the years and that's just how I view those situations.
