Best friend and their girlfriends...
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Best friend and their girlfriends...
Has anyone ever lost a friend because of their girlfriends? Like they stopped hanging out with you because of their girlfriend or you just stopped hanging with him...because of his girlfriend? My old best friend that I knew since I was a baby got married to his first and only girlfriend 1.5 years ago. And this was when he was 19, just out of high school. I don't seem to see or talk to him anymore. Now, my current best friend has been with his girlfriend for over 4 years. I liked her for awhile when I was dating her sister. When he started being really mean to her and I told him why doesn't he break up with her, they did for a couple of weeks but then got back together. That was a long time ago. After that it slowly seemed like his ***** were being gripped harder and harder by her vise. Now, I hate her guts. Shes a total bitch to me. She acts like a little girl. When we went to a haunted house last week I volunteered to take point. That crap never scares me and I think its funny as hell. Her damn self was literally pushing me every second and clawing my back and arms. She broke the skin on my exposed arms. I was pissed off at her when we got back home for what she was doing and the way she was acting. She told me to give her gas money because we took her car. I said I only had $1 and she said I was lieing and took my wallet and my dollar. The only thing I told her was that she needed to stop acting like a baby. She got pissy at me and told me I'm a retard that can't get a girlfriend. I just straight up told her she was a bitch right there. Today, I called up my friend and asked him what he was doing. He was going to a gay wood boat show that his girlfriend wanted to go to. I hear her voice over the phone saying that I'm trying to make him turn around. Honestly, I'm the type of person who can drop a friend because of stupid crap they do. And I told him I don't want to hang out with him if his girlfriend is with him.
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RE: Best friend and their girlfriends...
Mate ..this is all part of growing ....and I do not mean growing up ...just growing..
Your story is sad , but unfortunately is very common ....
Its only the details that ever change ...
Do not feel bad ... everyone would have a story simillar to this probably ..so you are not alone!
move on ..and when and if the **** finally hits the fan with your mate and his gf ...he will come back and probably say sorry ?? ..
Remember mate.... life goes on no matter what happens ... just do not get run over by it...
go with it
Your story is sad , but unfortunately is very common ....
Its only the details that ever change ...
Do not feel bad ... everyone would have a story simillar to this probably ..so you are not alone!
move on ..and when and if the **** finally hits the fan with your mate and his gf ...he will come back and probably say sorry ?? ..
Remember mate.... life goes on no matter what happens ... just do not get run over by it...
go with it
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ORIGINAL: rangerscott
Dude. Marriage + friends = bye bye friendship.
A bunch of my friends got married after high school. Why I dont know. I hear from one every once in awhile. I know I couldn't ask her to do anything.
Live life, then get married.
Dude. Marriage + friends = bye bye friendship.
A bunch of my friends got married after high school. Why I dont know. I hear from one every once in awhile. I know I couldn't ask her to do anything.
Live life, then get married.
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ORIGINAL: lonewolfcbr
^ oh snap! lol but uh...if they are being weird like that...maybe they shouldn't be upgraded to "best friend status" so easily...my homeboy/bestfriend/bestie/bro would kill, rape, pillage, go to jail, steal, lie, die, fight, bitch smack(the list goes on) for me...but none of those are the reasons i call him my bestfriend, every horrible moment in my life where i would have lost it if anyone else was around, he ended up being there and kept me cool the entire time...not because i asked him to be there, but just on accident, i wouldn't see him for 2 or 3 weeks, then the day some **** goes down, we just happen to be chilling or whatever...buuuuut not everybody is the same....i just suggest you look deeper into the person before calling them a "bestfriend"
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ORIGINAL: Nauree
dude he was my bestfriend before he even started dating her...
ORIGINAL: lonewolfcbr
^ oh snap! lol but uh...if they are being weird like that...maybe they shouldn't be upgraded to "best friend status" so easily...my homeboy/bestfriend/bestie/bro would kill, rape, pillage, go to jail, steal, lie, die, fight, bitch smack(the list goes on) for me...but none of those are the reasons i call him my bestfriend, every horrible moment in my life where i would have lost it if anyone else was around, he ended up being there and kept me cool the entire time...not because i asked him to be there, but just on accident, i wouldn't see him for 2 or 3 weeks, then the day some **** goes down, we just happen to be chilling or whatever...buuuuut not everybody is the same....i just suggest you look deeper into the person before calling them a "bestfriend"