Well this will prob one of my last few posts. My girlfriend of 7 years and 2 children laterdecided that she wants to see someone else, move out and take the kids with her. She will take the computer with her so I will see you guys when I see ya. So now I am stuck with a empty house, but I will still get to see my kids when I want to. Thanks guys and gals for being cool.

 

Sorry to hear the news. I didn't have any kids to go with it, but I went through the same recently. Keep your head high and don't ride when you are not focused. Good luck to you.

 

Hey, just use the computers at the local library-lol!

 

if the kids dont use the computer dont let her take it lol.

 

Get to the local library/local college. You can get on in numerous places anymore. We're here for ya. Keep your head up. Keep us posted.

 

What did you get to keep? When I got divorced from my first wife,she kept EVERYTHING...and I'm still pissed about it. Keep the computer, dude!

 

Girlfriend? 7 years? 2 kids? .... She probably wants to get married. /shrug Sorry to hear it bro =(

 

Are you OK with her taking the kids? Do you have a written, signed custody/visitation agreement? I know this is none of my business, but I've seen too many guys get burned when they were just trying to be reasonable, avoid conflict for the kids' sake, etc. Once you're living one place, and she and the children are living another place, she will have complete control of your access to your kids and if she changes her mind about how much time she wants you spending with them, you'll be in a very tough position.

Hope things work out for the best.

 

Yup.

Only I don't agree with rrasco. I know he meant well, but I've often used my bike toKEEP ME FOCUSED. Short trips of 25-45 minutes work wonders here.

 

[sm=teetertooter.gif]i hear coffins are cheaper than divorce....