Gettin flicked off?! How to handle it?
So I was driving to work yesterday morning and there is a turn where we have two lanes, its a pretty sharp turn, and the speed limit is 45. Anyway, I was making this turn and wasnt speeding cause it just started to sprinkle. Well this guy flys up on my *** and literally looks like he is going to take my tail off. So I gave my baby some good throttle and shot up to 55mph. I cruise at 55 all the way to the next intersection where I have to turn again, and this dude pulls up next to me flicking me off, and no not the casual he "F you guy" It was a FULL EXTENDED ARM AND FINGER flick off!
lol And he was jus starting at me, I didnt know how to handle that situation, I just stared back and when I went to say something he pulled off.....so i was looking for some input.
What do you do? WHat if this guy got out his car, should I even try to take the time to get off my bike or just roll out??
What do you do? WHat if this guy got out his car, should I even try to take the time to get off my bike or just roll out??
Since you don't know the guy and don't want to make the evening news,
Don't make eye contact, ignore his attitude BUT be aware of what he's doing.
If he gets out of the vehicle, leave!
If you stay, either one-of-two things happens...
1. He beats you like a drum and/or shoots you. This is considered bad form.
2. You beat him like a drum, and then he presses charges, the cops take his version
and you go to jail. Since you stuck around for the confrontation, you can't plead
self-defense, so your ride to work ends up costing you both money and your freedom.
This is considered very bad form.
Odds of you kicking his *** (which he would richly deserve), and then driving away...
Slim to none, since, by now, bystanders are phoning/videoing the incident and the
cops are moments away. If you do leave, now you're presumed guilty of assault,
and NOBODY (not even your mom) really believes that you didn't provoke/start it.
If you CAN'T leave, and have to kick his ***...when you win the encounter...stay and
administer first-aid (if needed) and wait for the first responder. Resist the urge for
that extra shot, while they're down (remember, you're the good-guy). Present as non-
threatening a front as you can and try to avoid inflamed or incriminating statements.
All of that said, usually these things DON'T excalate if you just don't do anything to further trigger the ****-head.
Ern
Don't make eye contact, ignore his attitude BUT be aware of what he's doing.
If he gets out of the vehicle, leave!
If you stay, either one-of-two things happens...
1. He beats you like a drum and/or shoots you. This is considered bad form.
2. You beat him like a drum, and then he presses charges, the cops take his version
and you go to jail. Since you stuck around for the confrontation, you can't plead
self-defense, so your ride to work ends up costing you both money and your freedom.
This is considered very bad form.
Odds of you kicking his *** (which he would richly deserve), and then driving away...
Slim to none, since, by now, bystanders are phoning/videoing the incident and the
cops are moments away. If you do leave, now you're presumed guilty of assault,
and NOBODY (not even your mom) really believes that you didn't provoke/start it.
If you CAN'T leave, and have to kick his ***...when you win the encounter...stay and
administer first-aid (if needed) and wait for the first responder. Resist the urge for
that extra shot, while they're down (remember, you're the good-guy). Present as non-
threatening a front as you can and try to avoid inflamed or incriminating statements.
All of that said, usually these things DON'T excalate if you just don't do anything to further trigger the ****-head.
Ern
Smile and wave is usually my retort to people like that. If you weren't doing anything, then they obviously have their own problems - don't let them become your problems, too.
Now the people who do something stupid, like cut you off, or something that invokes you to honk your horn or something (regardless of when you're on a bike or not), and then they flip you off like you're the a**hole, that's when I get infuriated. The idiocy of the general public has its way of turning me into a road rager for sure.
Now the people who do something stupid, like cut you off, or something that invokes you to honk your horn or something (regardless of when you're on a bike or not), and then they flip you off like you're the a**hole, that's when I get infuriated. The idiocy of the general public has its way of turning me into a road rager for sure.
Last edited by 74demon; Sep 19, 2012 at 12:52 PM. Reason: language


