Feeling Like a major azzhat
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10-07-2008, 07:12 PM
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RE: Feeling Like a major azzhat
ORIGINAL: CBRclassic
You are right rider 
.... he did give her a life experience that she will eventually take on board and learn from....
A positive from a negative .....that's life ...
ORIGINAL: rider0033
dude you did her a favor think of it that way. what ever it is that was the problem will be something that she will have a chance to perfect. in a sense you went friend being a boyfriend to a monument. this will always make her a better person when she gets over it. and now your FREE!!!!!!!!!
dude you did her a favor think of it that way. what ever it is that was the problem will be something that she will have a chance to perfect. in a sense you went friend being a boyfriend to a monument. this will always make her a better person when she gets over it. and now your FREE!!!!!!!!!
.... he did give her a life experience that she will eventually take on board and learn from....
A positive from a negative .....that's life ...
, all i've ever wanted was for you to care classy *breaks down*[sm=smiley31.gif]
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10-07-2008, 07:22 PM
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RE: Feeling Like a major azzhat
ORIGINAL: rider0033
hey, what is this warm fuzzy feeling? i got a pat on the back from the old guy....... must ...... not...... cry, all i've ever wanted was for you to care classy *breaks down*[sm=smiley31.gif]
ORIGINAL: CBRclassic
You are right rider
.... he did give her a life experience that she will eventually take on board and learn from....
A positive from a negative .....that's life ...
ORIGINAL: rider0033
dude you did her a favor think of it that way. what ever it is that was the problem will be something that she will have a chance to perfect. in a sense you went friend being a boyfriend to a monument. this will always make her a better person when she gets over it. and now your FREE!!!!!!!!!
dude you did her a favor think of it that way. what ever it is that was the problem will be something that she will have a chance to perfect. in a sense you went friend being a boyfriend to a monument. this will always make her a better person when she gets over it. and now your FREE!!!!!!!!!
.... he did give her a life experience that she will eventually take on board and learn from....
A positive from a negative .....that's life ...
, all i've ever wanted was for you to care classy *breaks down*[sm=smiley31.gif]
...but occasionally you say something deep and meaningful perhaps without even know you have , ?? and that is right as well ..I still say well done James
That warm and fuzzy feeling will I am sure pass with some time my friend
and by the way James ...I read your posts ..all of them!! and I know that beyond all your young bravado and banter ..their is more too you mate..
You my friend have a good heart and some sound values ... so there yu go..
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10-07-2008, 07:24 PM
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RE: Feeling Like a major azzhat
ORIGINAL: CBRclassic
James...you may be a cheeky (young) **** at times mate ...but occasionally you say something deep and meaningful perhaps without even know you have , ?? and that is right as well ..
I still say well done James
That warm and fuzzy feeling will I am sure pass with some time my friend
ORIGINAL: rider0033
hey, what is this warm fuzzy feeling? i got a pat on the back from the old guy....... must ...... not...... cry, all i've ever wanted was for you to care classy *breaks down*[sm=smiley31.gif]
ORIGINAL: CBRclassic
You are right rider
.... he did give her a life experience that she will eventually take on board and learn from....
A positive from a negative .....that's life ...
ORIGINAL: rider0033
dude you did her a favor think of it that way. what ever it is that was the problem will be something that she will have a chance to perfect. in a sense you went friend being a boyfriend to a monument. this will always make her a better person when she gets over it. and now your FREE!!!!!!!!!
dude you did her a favor think of it that way. what ever it is that was the problem will be something that she will have a chance to perfect. in a sense you went friend being a boyfriend to a monument. this will always make her a better person when she gets over it. and now your FREE!!!!!!!!!
.... he did give her a life experience that she will eventually take on board and learn from....
A positive from a negative .....that's life ...
, all i've ever wanted was for you to care classy *breaks down*[sm=smiley31.gif]
...but occasionally you say something deep and meaningful perhaps without even know you have , ?? and that is right as well ..I still say well done James
That warm and fuzzy feeling will I am sure pass with some time my friend
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10-07-2008, 07:35 PM
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RE: Feeling Like a major azzhat
Original: CBRclassic yer I know its my own quote ..
and by the way James ...I read your posts ..all of them!! and I know that beyond all your young bravado and banter ..their is more too you mate..
You my friend have a good heart and some sound values ... so there yu go..
and by the way James ...I read your posts ..all of them!! and I know that beyond all your young bravado and banter ..their is more too you mate..
You my friend have a good heart and some sound values ... so there yu go..
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RE: Feeling Like a major azzhat
much appreciated classy
HC really mano you did the best thing for both of your lives. could you imagine what kind of husband you would be fully knowing that
you never wanted to be in that position. you would be a nightmare to her. lets not even talk about if there were kids involved. good job HC and not just guys giving high fives about some random chick they dismissed, good job for making a sound life choice that pain or not it was the right thing to do.
HC really mano you did the best thing for both of your lives. could you imagine what kind of husband you would be fully knowing that
you never wanted to be in that position. you would be a nightmare to her. lets not even talk about if there were kids involved. good job HC and not just guys giving high fives about some random chick they dismissed, good job for making a sound life choice that pain or not it was the right thing to do.
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10-08-2008, 01:01 AM
RE: Feeling Like a major azzhat
at least you didn't act like this to her.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=syXC5N8Q51I
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGLvM4um2Hs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=syXC5N8Q51I
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGLvM4um2Hs
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10-08-2008, 03:28 AM
RE: Feeling Like a major azzhat
Time for a somewhat brutal reality check - I've never met a girl yet who didn't cry when her boyfriend broke up with them......why ?
Because it attacks their whole feeling of self-worth.
Girls are told from when they're tiny by their Dads that they are precious, and the best thing since fried bread, etc etc, beautiful beyond compare, brilliant, talented etc etc
Then a guy comes along and says "all of the above is bullsh1t I DON'T WANT YOU'
The image of perfection goes straight out of the window, and they'll do almost ANYTHING to get it back.........
How do I know this ?
I was married to just such a woman for 20 years, who could do no wrong in her family's eyes, but living with her exposed the nasty, REALLY NASTY side. I tried again after she asked me to, 4 years into the marriage, still didn't work (should have known it) and stuck around another 16 years, until it finally ended with her saying the same things your girlfriend did.
Best thing you can do right now is go running a lot more, and consider yourself, and her, very lucky. You got to make the choice I didn't make, and should've. Luck to you both
Because it attacks their whole feeling of self-worth.
Girls are told from when they're tiny by their Dads that they are precious, and the best thing since fried bread, etc etc, beautiful beyond compare, brilliant, talented etc etc
Then a guy comes along and says "all of the above is bullsh1t I DON'T WANT YOU'
The image of perfection goes straight out of the window, and they'll do almost ANYTHING to get it back.........
How do I know this ?
I was married to just such a woman for 20 years, who could do no wrong in her family's eyes, but living with her exposed the nasty, REALLY NASTY side. I tried again after she asked me to, 4 years into the marriage, still didn't work (should have known it) and stuck around another 16 years, until it finally ended with her saying the same things your girlfriend did.
Best thing you can do right now is go running a lot more, and consider yourself, and her, very lucky. You got to make the choice I didn't make, and should've. Luck to you both