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12-14-2009, 03:39 PM
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Haven't been around for a bit. Been a bit busy. The missus (ex missus) has been doing her genealogy for the last two years. Gradually she became more & more consumed by it. At times she would sit by the computer for 16 hours or more. Other times she would consume books, large books at an astonishing rate. Sometimes 3 or 4 a week. She hasn't done any shopping now for 4-5 weeks. Barely cooked a meal. The house hasn't been cleaned by her for years. I work shift work & carried these chores as best as I could as well as school runs & lunches etc etc. You get the picture. Strange thing is though I knew from the day I met her she had problems but we dealt with those & moved on & I grew to love her (still do). We've been together about 14 years & seen a lot of life in that time.
Now she decides a week & a bit before Christmas to get up & leave. supposedly told to leave me by her family. No income. No where to stay & wants our 10 year old daughter too. Luckily our daughter is having a sleep over at a friends house for a couple days but that can't last. This will destroy her. She's a very special kind of kid. One in a million as said by all who meet her. Very kind & gentle & with a huge heart.
Wish us luck for christmas guys & gals. We're going to need it.
Now she decides a week & a bit before Christmas to get up & leave. supposedly told to leave me by her family. No income. No where to stay & wants our 10 year old daughter too. Luckily our daughter is having a sleep over at a friends house for a couple days but that can't last. This will destroy her. She's a very special kind of kid. One in a million as said by all who meet her. Very kind & gentle & with a huge heart.
Wish us luck for christmas guys & gals. We're going to need it.
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12-14-2009, 03:52 PM
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12-14-2009, 04:06 PM
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Chit ..that sucks ..
I have allot in common with you mate from my experience with my ex ..
Sounds very familiar !
What can I say except , take it easy and don't fight it ...
I tell yu what Steve ....go download Skype and I am more than ok with chatting to yu when ever you want to blow off steam ...
A few of us here are talking regularly on it these days ...
good luck mate ...
I have allot in common with you mate from my experience with my ex ..
Sounds very familiar !
What can I say except , take it easy and don't fight it ...
I tell yu what Steve ....go download Skype and I am more than ok with chatting to yu when ever you want to blow off steam ...
A few of us here are talking regularly on it these days ...
good luck mate ...
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12-14-2009, 04:10 PM
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12-14-2009, 04:14 PM
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Haven't been around for a bit. Been a bit busy. The missus (ex missus) has been doing her genealogy for the last two years. Gradually she became more & more consumed by it. At times she would sit by the computer for 16 hours or more. Other times she would consume books, large books at an astonishing rate. Sometimes 3 or 4 a week. She hasn't done any shopping now for 4-5 weeks. Barely cooked a meal. The house hasn't been cleaned by her for years. I work shift work & carried these chores as best as I could as well as school runs & lunches etc etc. You get the picture. Strange thing is though I knew from the day I met her she had problems but we dealt with those & moved on & I grew to love her (still do). We've been together about 14 years & seen a lot of life in that time.
Now she decides a week & a bit before Christmas to get up & leave. supposedly told to leave me by her family. No income. No where to stay & wants our 10 year old daughter too. Luckily our daughter is having a sleep over at a friends house for a couple days but that can't last. This will destroy her. She's a very special kind of kid. One in a million as said by all who meet her. Very kind & gentle & with a huge heart.
Wish us luck for christmas guys & gals. We're going to need it.
Now she decides a week & a bit before Christmas to get up & leave. supposedly told to leave me by her family. No income. No where to stay & wants our 10 year old daughter too. Luckily our daughter is having a sleep over at a friends house for a couple days but that can't last. This will destroy her. She's a very special kind of kid. One in a million as said by all who meet her. Very kind & gentle & with a huge heart.
Wish us luck for christmas guys & gals. We're going to need it.
I am about 3 months ahead of you. Good luck, I am not looking for Christmas to arrive. keep your chin up and remember your daughters best interest is first.
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12-14-2009, 04:41 PM
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Something that I personaly have noticed that bothers me about some of these middle aged women these days , is that 30 years ago men were tagged as the ones that did the mid life crisis run away thing ... and we copped friggin heaps for being the bastards that broke up families ...
BUT these bloody days , some of these bitches go and do the myriad of head tripping crap that is at there finger tips ... and do the same bloody thing !!!! wreck young families for the sake of there own personal "needs" as they put it ..
and yu know what, any you talk to about it say ...ow I had to do it , I was being suffocated ...the only difference is that they aren't tagged as home wrecker's , they call it " Finding themselves " and it is sposed to be ok , fine , the right thing to do , and they even promote it as a good thing to do amongst themselves!! ??
no chit ....I have talked to heaps of them across the Net years ago when I went through what you are going through now Steve ...
I sometimes wish they would go find themselves at someone else's expense ...or go do it standing in the middle of a freeway at night in heavy traffic !!
and spare us the dumb **** head trippy moron explanations !!
sorry guys ...but this topic is close to home for me ...
they chit me !!! .... * wheres the gun? *
I have the urge to perform some public service duties ...LOL
BUT these bloody days , some of these bitches go and do the myriad of head tripping crap that is at there finger tips ... and do the same bloody thing !!!! wreck young families for the sake of there own personal "needs" as they put it ..
and yu know what, any you talk to about it say ...ow I had to do it , I was being suffocated ...the only difference is that they aren't tagged as home wrecker's , they call it " Finding themselves " and it is sposed to be ok , fine , the right thing to do , and they even promote it as a good thing to do amongst themselves!! ??
no chit ....I have talked to heaps of them across the Net years ago when I went through what you are going through now Steve ...
I sometimes wish they would go find themselves at someone else's expense ...or go do it standing in the middle of a freeway at night in heavy traffic !!
and spare us the dumb **** head trippy moron explanations !! sorry guys ...but this topic is close to home for me ...
they chit me !!! .... * wheres the gun? *
I have the urge to perform some public service duties ...LOL
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12-14-2009, 05:34 PM
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12-14-2009, 08:33 PM
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Oh, man, Blue.... I'm sorry to hear that.
I'm not sure what to say except that your little girl is gonna need you to be strong for her. Try and make this as easy as you can on her, despite how upset you're gonna be. But you probably already know that.
Things have a way of working out for the better sometimes, man. Impossible to see it that way, though, especially when you're in the middle of it.
I wish the best for you, bud.
I'm not sure what to say except that your little girl is gonna need you to be strong for her. Try and make this as easy as you can on her, despite how upset you're gonna be. But you probably already know that.
Things have a way of working out for the better sometimes, man. Impossible to see it that way, though, especially when you're in the middle of it.
I wish the best for you, bud.
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12-14-2009, 10:53 PM
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12-15-2009, 02:33 AM
You're in my thoughts & prayers mate.
Obviously you'll keep searching for and focusing on the positive for you and your daughter's sake.
Despite your continued love for your wife, you responsibility is to yourself & your daughter.
I'll be in Adel in Jan - time I bought you a meal! I'll give you a call.
Obviously you'll keep searching for and focusing on the positive for you and your daughter's sake.
Despite your continued love for your wife, you responsibility is to yourself & your daughter.
I'll be in Adel in Jan - time I bought you a meal! I'll give you a call.