Are you a good person?
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I hate cheaters...yes what a horrible show and what a horrible woman!...and all in the name of money...at least the husband knows the truth ...I hope to God he kicks her cheating *** to the curb!
That poor man!
Why give these low life's airtime?...what's the matter with this world?...don't answer I already know, it's completely fked up!
I couldn't even watch the whole thing...it...just... sickened me too much :-(
Jules
That poor man!
Why give these low life's airtime?...what's the matter with this world?...don't answer I already know, it's completely fked up!
I couldn't even watch the whole thing...it...just... sickened me too much :-(
Jules
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RE: Are you a good person?
I used to have the "hate" cheaters attitude. I still don't like the act of cheating...but as I get older I try to rationalize EVERYTHING. My take on cheaters is that the marriage was broken to begin with and by the time it gets to the point of cheating; there is a good chance that it's beyond repair.
It's better to work on fixing the marriage or getting a divorce. I don't think all cheaters do it because they are evil despicable people (that doesn't mean that they are not). I no longer believe that once a cheater, always a cheater. I look at my friend's marriage. He completely avoided me when he was cheating because he knew I would give him hell for it (which I did afterwards). He was stupid, impetuous and immature but I also see deep regret, too. There are many factors to make a relationship work. Some people get married for the wrong reason. They weren't getting married because they loved each other, but because they thought it was the right thing to do. Some get married too young. None of these are appropriate reasons, just excuses. I think the biggest reason is that they didn't learn to work out there problems. Some people are just weak.
You cannot break apart two people who are absolutely in love with each other.
The question is why was the love not there?
P.S. I'm ok if you hate cheaters.
It's better to work on fixing the marriage or getting a divorce. I don't think all cheaters do it because they are evil despicable people (that doesn't mean that they are not). I no longer believe that once a cheater, always a cheater. I look at my friend's marriage. He completely avoided me when he was cheating because he knew I would give him hell for it (which I did afterwards). He was stupid, impetuous and immature but I also see deep regret, too. There are many factors to make a relationship work. Some people get married for the wrong reason. They weren't getting married because they loved each other, but because they thought it was the right thing to do. Some get married too young. None of these are appropriate reasons, just excuses. I think the biggest reason is that they didn't learn to work out there problems. Some people are just weak.
You cannot break apart two people who are absolutely in love with each other.
The question is why was the love not there?
P.S. I'm ok if you hate cheaters.
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To me cheating just shows a lack of integrity, it's sneaky and hurts the other person cheated on...if the relationship is that bad you need to cheat or just can't help yourself then do the other person a favour and finish things first...once cheated on the trust is gone forever...
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The ending was good.
I couldn't even watch the whole thing...it sickened me too much :-(