Call her or wait
#41
RE: Call her or wait
Hey, wait a second....I used to be a prison guard in a po-dunk town right around there!!! (Valdosta). Small world I guess.
I hate to be the one to tell you this but her "wanting to live closer to mommy and daddy" or "not liking the military thing" sound like excuses to cover up the bombshell of her seeing some dude!
That is a tough scene, man!! Damn!!
Hope you are able to get your Mojo back someday. Unfortunately, I doubt that you have it now because of even posting this.[sm=bustedsign.gif]
My advice (take it or leave it) would be to get yourself together first and don't put so much pressure on a bounce-back relationship....even if she is a "hottie". There are hotties everywhere...just relax!
good luck,
Dr. Peanut[sm=drlove.gif]
I hate to be the one to tell you this but her "wanting to live closer to mommy and daddy" or "not liking the military thing" sound like excuses to cover up the bombshell of her seeing some dude!
That is a tough scene, man!! Damn!!
Hope you are able to get your Mojo back someday. Unfortunately, I doubt that you have it now because of even posting this.[sm=bustedsign.gif]
My advice (take it or leave it) would be to get yourself together first and don't put so much pressure on a bounce-back relationship....even if she is a "hottie". There are hotties everywhere...just relax!
good luck,
Dr. Peanut[sm=drlove.gif]
#42
RE: Call her or wait
Actually this podunk town is Wewahitchka florida.....try saying that when you are drunk and pissed off. doesn't matter...the dude is still a douche bag.
I have a feeling the reason she is seeing this guys IS in fact due to that she doesn't want to leave. It's easier for her to drop the realtionship she is inand not leave. She wants to stay close to her family, and wants a dude around that isn't going anywhere....ever. doesn't matter what kind of loser he might be. She's young, and doesn't understand the sanctity of marriage. She has a ton to learn about life....and one lesson is it's not always about you. marriage is compromise and understanding.
well, understand this...I can find a better woman than her in a flash. Tons of lovely ladies would have given their right arm to have been in the position that she so willingly gave up. Sometimes when you have everything you fail to appreciate it. it's sad....it's a fact.
Thanks for all the replies and advice guys. and thanks to those of you that have been supportive. It's nice to know there are people out there that give a ****.
ooooh, and peanut....I've never lost my mojo, son. hahaha[sm=shades.gif]
I have a feeling the reason she is seeing this guys IS in fact due to that she doesn't want to leave. It's easier for her to drop the realtionship she is inand not leave. She wants to stay close to her family, and wants a dude around that isn't going anywhere....ever. doesn't matter what kind of loser he might be. She's young, and doesn't understand the sanctity of marriage. She has a ton to learn about life....and one lesson is it's not always about you. marriage is compromise and understanding.
well, understand this...I can find a better woman than her in a flash. Tons of lovely ladies would have given their right arm to have been in the position that she so willingly gave up. Sometimes when you have everything you fail to appreciate it. it's sad....it's a fact.
Thanks for all the replies and advice guys. and thanks to those of you that have been supportive. It's nice to know there are people out there that give a ****.
ooooh, and peanut....I've never lost my mojo, son. hahaha[sm=shades.gif]
#43
RE: Call her or wait
Thats funny !!![sm=happybounce.gif]
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Wow Ten sorry to hear things took a big $hit for you, [:@]these things happen for a reason[&:]my 1st marrige lasted 9.5 years thenmet my 2nd wife best thing that ever happend to meany way............care ful of the Hotties [sm=drooldude.gif]sometimes they burn the worst...........
Wow Ten sorry to hear things took a big $hit for you, [:@]these things happen for a reason[&:]my 1st marrige lasted 9.5 years thenmet my 2nd wife best thing that ever happend to meany way............care ful of the Hotties [sm=drooldude.gif]sometimes they burn the worst...........
#44
RE: Call her or wait
No offense intended here (take it as you will *shrugs*) but you have the typical denial syndrome right now. Soon enough you'll let it go and that's when you know it's done.
"I can get another woman in a flash"
"Hes a douche"
"mom and dad"
In the end it doesn't matter, it's just over.
Bummer, life went on.
"I can get another woman in a flash"
"Hes a douche"
"mom and dad"
In the end it doesn't matter, it's just over.
Bummer, life went on.
#46
#47
RE: Call her or wait
I can see where Ten is coming from. How many people do you know that don't appreciate what they have? I am guilty of it! Sounds like this gal is making a bad decision and she will realize that down the road. Until then, enjoy your life, my friend...be selfish...the world revolves around you right now.
#48
#49
RE: Call her or wait
Got phone# last nite.
Call her for a date today/the next day.
I agree with some of the post. If you wait even for an hour someone else might hook up with her and there goes your shot.
I also agree with a post that says women changes their mind quick too.
Hell you don't want to know what I think about women. Let's just say I "objectify" them.
Go for it, asap.
Call her for a date today/the next day.
I agree with some of the post. If you wait even for an hour someone else might hook up with her and there goes your shot.
I also agree with a post that says women changes their mind quick too.
Hell you don't want to know what I think about women. Let's just say I "objectify" them.
Go for it, asap.